Be Yourself

My dear daughter Nur Izzati,

What do you think  about yourself?

Do you really know who you are?

I'm wondering,

Why some people like to be someone that they do not belongs to.

These questions are always across in my mind .

Why not we try to be ourselves.

My dear girl,

Being yourself is celebrating you, as an individual .Learning to express yourself and be happy with who you are and it's learning to loves yourself,  it's not hiding who you are or changing things about you to fit in. 

And try to remember this....

You can't be yourself  if you don't know. Try to understand, and accept yourself first.
It should be your primary goal to find this out. Try to take time to yourself and contemplate your life and choices. Try to think about what kind of things you would or
wouldn't like to do, and act accordingly;
finding out through trial and error helps more than you might think it does.

My Dear Izzati,

You can even take personality tests, but be careful to only take what you want
from them and not let them define you. Work on accepting mistakes 
and choices you've made; they're done and in the past, so there is no use crying over spilled milk

So dear, if you be yourself, you will satisfied and happy with what 
do you have and what you have done.. I'm sure after this, 
you would not worry what people say about you and you're not asking
"Am I looking good, mom" anymore.

Your mom:)